How to become respected, to increase your authority in the class - these questions often concern adolescents who are not very popular among their peers, more often it worries newcomers. But it is easier for newcomers to do this than for those who have been studying in the class for a long time, an opinion about whom has already formed.
Instructions
Step 1
If you are determined to gain popularity, it will be a big mistake to curry favor with the leaders. This will not arouse respect, you will simply become one of the entourage. Do not go without a reason for confrontation, but do not fawn.
Step 2
The best way to get fellow practitioners interested in your personality is to be interesting. Don't hide your skills and talents, but don't brag about them either. Just wait for a reason to show them. It can be anything. Maybe you are a great dancer or athlete? Or can you easily explain a difficult problem? Or do you know how to program and understand the computer? Or do you do parkour? Feel free to make it known. You will definitely have a like-minded person who will respect you for your skills or capabilities.
Step 3
Don't be afraid to be lonely. It's better than intruding. Make contact easily, be friendly, but do not let yourself be pushed around and controlled. The one who allows himself to be commanded will never gain respect. And by the way, a loner can get more attention than a person in a crowd.
Step 4
Do not succumb to provocations - not just for the sake of being accepted into the company, to do what is unpleasant for you. Don't drink, don't try drugs, don't poison someone weaker. If you are not respected by drug addicts, it may be for the best. If you are strong, defend your position, then it will be more beneficial to both your authority and your life.
Step 5
Try to keep abreast of the events of the class, to know what is interesting to the guys around. Maybe you, too, share this interest, and common hobbies will help to establish contact with you. Try to help someone with something if you can really do it.
Step 6
Throwing a party can be a good way to break the ice in a relationship, especially if you have a dacha outside the city. Agree with the parents and send out invitations to the whole class. You can show your imagination and arrange a theme party, or arrange a joint viewing of an interesting movie for everyone, and then a home disco.
Step 7
In any case, be yourself, no matter how lonely at times. Try to develop yourself - look for new hobbies, activities, gain new knowledge. If you have a rich inner life, if you are an interesting conversationalist and a benevolent person, you will certainly win someone's respect.
