This is the fear of insecure people who feel calm when no one violates their usual, comfortable and convenient way of life. If these people feel responsible to someone, then this creates a feeling of inconvenience in them. Such people do not achieve anything significant in life, they have no ambition, pride.
Instructions
Step 1
The most important thing is your desire to develop a sense of responsibility. It is important to strive to cultivate this quality in yourself. Self-improvement and self-discipline. Careful attention to one's words, obligations, actions and deeds helps a person to become responsible.
Step 2
Ask yourself what you can do now and think about ways to achieve the result. Replace your “I want” needs and desires with thoughts about what you need to accomplish in order to get what you want.
Step 3
Psychologically, it helps to take responsibility for your obligations and fulfill them - this is to write down your goal and the deadlines for its implementation in writing. A person becomes an adult when he decides to go all the way, despite obstacles.
Step 4
Learn to admit your faults and mistakes. Don't look for the guilty ones. Be prepared to correct the mistakes you have made. You are responsible for what you have done or will do in your life.
Step 5
To change your life, you need to be able to take deliberate risks. Every important goal or challenge requires you to take risks.
Don't be afraid to make a mistake.
Step 6
Avoid using words that express your insecurity.