Quite often, a person finds excuses for his failures in the form of improper upbringing, the intrigues of others, instability in society or hatred of the boss. Taking responsibility for your successes and failures is considered a more correct line of conduct. Only internal changes are considered decisive in the formation of responsibility for one's life.
Instructions
Step 1
Realize that everything that happens in your life depends only on you, your past actions and thoughts. The very first inner change should be the realization that there are no accidents in the world, nothing just happens. This inner awareness will lead to the fact that you will try to live every day of your life with a specific purpose, benefit for others, with joy, kindness and love in your heart.
Step 2
Do not blame someone or something for your own failures, because everything in life happens only because of your thoughts and actions. When problems, failures, mistakes happen, you shouldn't blame yourself either. At least long and painful. All people learn, develop, and making mistakes is much easier. It is the big failures that give you the incentive for further big wins. Therefore, treat every unpleasant moment as an experience that contributes to your development. At the same time, do not forget to thank others for help, tips, advice or ideal conditions, and also thank life itself for its delights, joys and endless lessons.
Step 3
Also accept the idea that no one in the world owes anyone anything. You do not owe anything to anyone, and no one owes you anything. If someone let you down, think, maybe you relied too much on this person, trusted him too much and did not prepare an option in reserve? So it's only yourself to blame for this. Each person, first of all, will take care of their own benefit and their interests, and your interests are exclusively your problem. If you want to help others - help, but do not expect to be immediately gifted with all kinds of benefits from all sides. Although, of course, this is most often the case, but a positive outlook is already working here.
Step 4
Remember that justice in the world, as everyone supposedly objectively imagines it to himself, does not and cannot be. It is an abstract concept that helps some people to control others, to keep them at bay. In this way, responsibility is shifted to some third parties, who decide whether this or that action is fair or not. Control must be exercised from within, because for that, every person is given a conscience. Only you yourself decide how to use your conscience, how to negotiate with it, to listen to it or not.
Step 5
Become aware of the fact that other people have their own opinions, which do not always coincide with yours, their thoughts, their worldview and their life path. Therefore, do not judge someone, do not try to impose your point of view, argue or advise without permission. Others have their own life experience, according to which they act in one way or another, and it is not for you to judge which choice they make. The other person may also be trying to take responsibility for their actions and thoughts, so do not interfere with this.
