To make life better, you need to start transforming yourself. Of course, a new job or another city will make you feel different, but this will not lead to qualitative changes. And if you work on thinking, on your attitude to life, everything will go differently.
Instructions
Step 1
Start your change with a dream. Write on paper how you would like to live in two years. Formulate everything in as much detail as possible, taking into account different areas. Mention personal life, work, amount of money, behavior patterns, environment. You create an image to strive for, the more attractive it is, the easier it is for you to motivate yourself on the way to achieving it. Do not be trifling, write a lot and in detail. For the convenience of perception, you can even pick up images of your desires, which should be placed in a conspicuous place in order to remember what you have conceived as often as possible.
Step 2
To make everything you have invented come true, make a plan of action on the way to these goals. To do this, you need money to earn, knowledge to take a high position, friends and loved ones to support you. Therefore, you will have to study, work and establish contacts. Break the goal into parts, distribute the achievement of the latter by month. Specify exact timelines to keep track of results. Tasks can be done even not very large, in order to do something every day on the way to the enigma.
Step 3
Take responsibility for everything around you. It was you who created your life, there are no guilty ones that prevented you from becoming rich, happy or loved. Neither the government, nor your parents, nor your life partner are to blame for what surrounds you, you have created all this with your own hands. And only you yourself can fix everything. Stop complaining and blaming others, all that is is the result of your actions, and if everything is not perfect, then you yourself did not make an effort to make it different.
Step 4
Start learning. For example, it’s good to read books about goal setting, financial literacy, and opportunities to get more. The ability to handle money is useful in any workplace. Also, start improving your knowledge related to your profession. If you take a responsible approach to this business, in a year you will become a more qualified specialist, and this will allow you to find a new job with a higher salary.
Step 5
Stop hanging out with people who don't motivate you. If someone distracts you from your goals, if you are not ready to change and asks you to stay in one place, give up the relationship with such a person. It is very difficult to resist the urge to rest and relax, especially if someone invites you to this activity. Of course, breaks are necessary, but they distract you, prevent you from fulfilling your desires, so you need to change the sphere of communication. Find people who are going forward, it is much easier to change everything around them.
