Everyone is attracted to those people who can remain calm even in the most unpredictable situation. Many admire them, want to be like such people. It’s not difficult, you just need to learn how to avoid such behaviors that slow down your progress and prevent you from being happy.
Instructions
Step 1
Smart people never pay attention to the negative from others, they rejoice at their success, they are simply not interested in the opinion of ill-wishers.
Step 2
No one is immune from mistakes, and smart people are no exception. However, they have learned to learn from their failures. Smart people remember their mistakes and take measures not to repeat them again.
Step 3
Many break down in a conflict situation, they realize that in any case they will be defeated, but their emotions turn out to be stronger than reason. Smart people know how to restrain and control themselves, they know in which situation they can defend their innocence, and in which it is better to remain silent.
Step 4
Some strive for perfection and are very worried that they cannot achieve this. Smart people know that there is no ideal. Therefore, they do not get upset if they did not receive something, but rejoice at what they were able to receive.
Step 5
The ability to take risks and accept failure is the main trait of smart people. They do not reproach themselves for past mistakes, but, as was said earlier, learn from them and move on. They believe that someone who lives in the past has no future.
Step 6
Your thoughts affect your emotional state. Therefore, smart people do not think about problems, they think about ways to solve them.
Step 7
Smart people won't whine and complain about their problems. If they happen to talk to such individuals, they will ask them what they are going to do to solve the situation. This will encourage moaning enthusiasts to seek solutions to their problems.
Step 8
Negative emotions are necessary, they help to resist in a given situation. However, when the problem is resolved, negative emotions can harm your health, as they plunge into a stressful state. Therefore, smart people never hold grudge against others.
Step 9
Smart people won't do what they really don't want to do, they know how to say no. Ability to refuse makes it possible not to overload yourself with tasks and helps to have time to do everything that is planned.
