What is friendship, and what should a true friend be like? Everyone thought about it. Why friendship has lost all value now. Previously, no one cared who a person works, how much he gets, how expensively he is dressed. Now all the values in friendship have changed. No friends. Everyone for himself.
People have ceased to be interested in what is happening to others. Nobody needs other people's problems. People are only interested when there is great curiosity. And that is all! People are completely immersed in social media. It is more interesting to spend time there than to go for a walk with a friend or just drink tea at home. Because of this, people become completely strangers. Even the family goes into the background. But that doesn't apply to everyone. Because there is still a small percentage in the world who are always ready to come to the aid of a friend or spend an evening with their family. But the main thing is that they can appreciate all these actions and efforts with dignity, and not just use it.
A person shouldn't have many friends. There are no more than three true ones. And when a person says: "Yes, I have many friends who will help me." It would be great if this was actually true. Usually, someone who says so has no friends at all. Very often such people are lonely. You can't find a best friend when your soul deigns. He will appear when it is really necessary. Such a person will be there for your best and worst days. She will never envy, but only sincerely rejoice. Whatever happens, he will always be there.
Friendship must be tested over time. There will be betrayal, grief, disappointment. Only after a bitter experience is a person able to realize all values. But the worst thing is that after bad moments in life, people begin to trust others less, they are looking for a catch everywhere, they are afraid to make mistakes. No, you shouldn't do that. We must not be afraid of new sensations. You just need to take everything lightly. Yes, it's good. No - don't be upset. Bad moments can never last forever. There is a time limit for everything.
Thus, in order to find a good friend, you must first of all become one yourself! You cannot always just take, you must also give something in return. This is how true friendship is built. When one is ready to do anything, and the other turns only when it is beneficial to him, then in this case it is better to run far away from such people. After all, over time, rose-colored glasses will fall off, and disappointment will come. And in order to avoid this, it is necessary to learn how to correctly, to prioritize friendship.
