It is, of course, nice to receive gifts with or without reason. However, not all surprises are enjoyable. And the point is not even that the person being gifted may not like the contents of a beautiful package. The reason lies in the mutual exchange of emotions. Handing over a gift with a smile - you get a double dose of positive energy in return. And vice versa. The second happens much more often, because not everyone knows how to present a gift and not always. You need to make surprises with pleasure, to help you - little tricks and tips.
Necessary
- - present;
- - postcard;
- - package.
Instructions
Step 1
Set aside time in your schedule to purchase a gift. Make your rounds of stores slowly, without combining with other worries. A present bought in the nearest shopping center from the birthday person's house is not the best choice. The exception is when the desired object is actually sold there. It is better to search for an object in a good mood, without sadness, boredom and fatigue. Imagine that this is your goal: to "get" the most unusual souvenir, for example.
Step 2
Buy those things that seem most suitable for your boyfriend or girlfriend. Focus on your financial capabilities so as not to get upset if the desired object is too expensive for you. A gift can consist of one item, or it can consist of several. The main thing is that your choice does not seem rash. Most often, it offends when you are presented with a thing that was bought "at random", by chance, with the hope that it will be useful to you.
Step 3
Pay attention to the packaging. It's nice to see how the recipient's eyes shine and his hands tremble when he unfolds the rustling paper. The choice is huge - use wrapping paper, decorative bags, ribbons, bows, beads, and even drapery fabric. You can decorate a gift in specialized stores or do it yourself. Such a pastime will bring a lot of positive emotions. You will feel like a real magician who works wonders.
Step 4
Think about the postcard. A congratulatory card or a beautifully designed letter with a wish will be a great addition. Having made a postcard with your own hands, you will put a piece of your soul and warmth into it. The recipient simply cannot help but feel such a manifestation of attention and care.
Step 5
Determine for yourself when is the best time to give the gift. Someone prefers to present the gift, barely entering the threshold of the house, and someone at the end of the evening. Alternatively, if a feast is planned, you can present the present simultaneously with the pronunciation of the toast. It is important for you to feel as comfortable, relaxed and confident as possible. Only then can you congratulate the person with joy and pleasure. Otherwise, you will have to fake it and put on a smile.
Step 6
If the present is unplanned, try to find out what mood the recipient is in. If your girlfriend's day went wrong in the morning or she is in a hurry, your surprise will be pleasant, but still a little out of place. This will be reflected not only on her face, eyes, but also in intonation. Accordingly, you will get a share of irony or indifference.
Step 7
Change plans or reschedule the meeting if you don't feel well. Your intuition will never fail if you listen to it in time. When you come to visit with a cold or in a bad mood, your visit will become only a favor, because behavior and well-being can hardly be disguised.
