All people are different and show their feelings in different ways. It largely depends on the character and upbringing. A person who is accustomed to controlling himself is always lost if he needs to communicate his attitude to another. When you are in love, but are used to holding back, you must reveal your feelings so that the one you love does not doubt your love and can respond to them. In this case, you need to overcome your shyness and fear of rejection, which is always difficult.
Instructions
Step 1
First of all, realize that nothing will happen to you for this - you will not be punished or condemned. It is quite natural for adults to communicate their feelings to each other, even if they are not very pleasant, it is honest and respects. It will be all the more pleasant to hear words about love. Even if you cannot be reciprocated, your action will be appreciated.
Step 2
You should not immediately talk about your great love, so as not to frighten the girl with her scale. Do not immediately suggest constant meetings and serious relationships, which still imply that for this you have to get to know each other better. Tell her that you like her very much and is interesting, ask for a meeting to chat. Such a meeting does not oblige the girl to anything, and she will certainly agree.
Step 3
Make the most of your first date to get to know her better and make sure you really like her. Get her interested in yourself. Ask about her hobbies and interests, watch her talk about them, express your interest and delight, it's always nice. Compliment the girl, but do not overdo it: they must be sincere and touch on the real merits.
Step 4
At the end of the date, say that you really enjoyed the time together and that you would like to continue such a trusting communication. Seeing off the girl, you can kiss her on the cheek when parting, now all friends exchange such kisses. If she wants to take the initiative, be able to feel it and kiss her for real. Just control yourself and don't scare her with your pent-up passion. It can be demonstrated next time.
Step 5
If you have received consent for the next date, then you can already reveal your feelings completely, then it will look like the result of a thoughtful analysis of those undoubted advantages that the girl demonstrated on the first date. It will be flattering to her, and in any case she will listen to you with great pleasure.
