Expressions like "revenge all with one broom" or "one size fits all" did not appear by chance. Most people tend to measure the people around them by the same measure, without going into particular details - character traits and individual personality traits.
Instructions
Step 1
To treat all people differently, you need to realize that everyone around you does not have to resemble you in appearance, character, personality, judgment and moral character. Only a narrow-minded person can think that there are two types of opinions - his own and wrong. This is wrong. Everyone has the right to be individual. Each is unique and has a unique set of certain features of appearance and character. Therefore, you should not be surprised that someone smokes, while you hate the smell of tobacco smoke, and someone cheats when you practice monogamy. Absolutely identical people do not exist - take it for granted.
Step 2
A person is formed not only by himself, but also by the society around him. If a teenager is rude to his parents and all other adults, this does not mean at all that he was born that way or that he wanted to become consciously, showing in this way a kind of protest to society. But what if he just got into bad company, in which most of the moral principles adopted in society are denied, and his parents were too busy making money and did not have time to influence him, as a result of which such behavior was deeply rooted in his fragile mind? It is not always a person's fault that he behaves "not like everyone else."
Step 3
A person's personal life is controlled only by him and in a civilized society cannot be discussed or criticized from outside. The moral foundations and moral values of an individual person are purely his own business and does not concern anyone, how, when and with whom a person entered into a relationship, had sexual intercourse or treacherously changed. Leave condemnation and criticism to yourself - this is a manifestation of bad taste and nothing more.