Almost everyone knows how to persuade people. Many of us unknowingly use psychological persuasion. Persuasion is something that we can apply every day, even if we just need to persuade the husband to take out the trash. Here are some powerful ways you can get people to do something for you:
Instructions
Step 1
Ask permission before you start asking and persuading. If the interlocutor has time to listen to your question. By doing this, you will emphasize your respect for the interlocutor, his employment and free time.
Step 2
Persuade nicely, interestingly, unpredictably. Surprisingly, it works. Moreover, psychologically it is much more difficult to refuse an eloquent and slightly impudent person. Use the words of courtesy: "Please", "Thank you." Always express your gratitude after you have achieved your goal.
Step 3
Smile. Be cheerful, smiling, and charismatic. Being in a good mood will help you achieve more than you think. People will be happy to listen to you, giving little thought to what you are saying, while naturally accepting your point of view.
Step 4
Do something for the person before you start coaxing them. Sometimes it is very difficult to refuse someone who has already done something for you. Moreover, make it a good habit to do good. It always comes back.
Step 5
Show the other person the benefits of your idea. If possible, please describe how its implementation will suit his interests. This allows you to get the opponent's close attention.
Step 6
Try not to be obvious in your persuasion. Smoothly lead the interlocutor to your goal. You will be more persuasive if your audience does not know that you are trying to convince them.
Step 7
Persuade, but be prepared to refuse. Oddly enough, if you are internally ready to hear "no", then more often than not, you will be answered "yes". If this attitude is difficult for you, just imagine what could happen if you were refused? It is good enough to accept the rejection favorably, because it means that when you ask again, the answer is likely to be yes.
Step 8
Be honest. Honesty is a very disarming quality. If you openly admit that you, for example, ask and persuade for your own benefit, people are able to react to this. Sincerity is so unusual and rare that the person being persuaded suddenly agrees and helps.
Step 9
The most important thing is to stop on time. Your opponent may find your persuasion annoying and you boring. If you are considered intrusive, it will be almost impossible to achieve your goal.
