Parents and children do not always understand each other. Despite love and good relationships, the vision of happiness, the ways and methods of achieving it, they have different, sometimes mutually exclusive. What if you need a PC to make your life more fulfilling, and your parents consider it a harmful and unnecessary item? How do you get them to buy a computer?
Instructions
Step 1
Understand why parents don't want to buy a computer? Perhaps you devote too little time to lessons, and with the advent of a new toy, your academic performance will naturally decrease. Think about what concerns your parents have. They may worry that the computer will ruin their health, distract from real life and communication with peers, bring discord in the family and wean you from doing household chores and helping mom and dad. Or maybe everything is simpler and the parents simply do not have the money to buy. It is necessary to understand that parents do not draw bills, but earn money, sometimes denying themselves something for the sake of the happiness of their child.
Step 2
Think about how you can address your parents' concerns. If they are worried about caring for their beloved dog, promise to walk the dog no matter what. Give up for a while from pocket money and the purchase of a third pair of sneakers at the expense of buying a computer.
When resolving fears, do not deceive your parents. If you promise to track your progress and only play games when homework is done, keep your word. You should not tempt fate just for the sake of purchasing another toy.
If the parents at first respond with a refusal, make this decision without emotion, calmly. Do not escalate the situation, do not cry or get angry. In doing so, you will exclude the emergence of conflict, submit to parental authority. This will make it easy to return to this topic again.
Step 3
Come up with good reasons and good reasons for buying a computer. Try to find not only your own benefits, but also find benefits from this acquisition for the whole family. Make a list and refer to the list the next time you talk. With this behavior, you will prove yourself as an adult.
Prove to your parents that a computer is not a toy, but a necessary and important thing in the house. Mentally switch places with your parents and understand what arguments may be weighty for them.
Step 4
Find a compromise with your parents. You may be able to make some money so that mom and dad can add funds for the purchase.
Don't be discouraged if you can't get what you want. Remember, parents only want the best for their child. Perhaps you really should wait with the purchase, or get the model easier and cheaper.
