Friendliness and compassion are very pleasant character traits. However, if you do not observe the measure, they can turn into obsession. This is unlikely to please the object of attention, and most likely he will not feel gratitude …
Instructions
Step 1
If someone you know is upset or anxious about something, it’s natural to ask him what happened and offer his help. However, do not insist if you see that the person is not inclined to be frank. In this case, it is better to leave him alone, offering to contact him if he still needs help.
Step 2
It is very difficult to determine the line between caring and obsession for a loving person. The stormy delight of the first days of love inevitably gives way to a more even relationship. A more emotional partner (usually a woman) sometimes painfully perceives this change, considering it a sign of cooling and even close separation.
Step 3
The most unfortunate decision would be the pursuit of a loved one, constant phone calls and SMS, chatting and resentment, if the loved one did not answer right away, talked dryly or quickly said goodbye. Learn to respect the personal space of the other person. Give him the right to free time from you. Keeping a man on a leash will almost inevitably make him want to break free.
Step 4
Of course, it is imperative to show attention to your beloved, but just enough so that it does not irritate him. The need to constantly make excuses and prove your love can lead to what scares you - chilling and parting.
Step 5
Find interesting or rewarding activities for yourself to fill out the time you spend separately. It can be a sport, a foreign language, some other hobby, or just meeting friends. A man should not even think that waiting for his call is your only occupation. Otherwise, even a kind and good person may be tempted to abuse his power over you a little.
Step 6
Sometimes parental concern can turn into obsession. Parents cannot believe that their child has already grown up and is capable of actions that will not lead to illness or accident. Nevertheless, even toddlers need a certain amount of independence. A healthy 5-year-old child angrily yells “I myself!” When parents try to build a house of chairs and blankets instead of him.
Step 7
Imposed parental help can be harmful, depriving kids of the joy of independent creativity. Moreover, this applies to grown-up children. Do not deny them the right to gain their own life experience, even at the cost of mistakes and hardships. Of course, children should know that they can count on your support if they need it, but it's better to wait for their request anyway.
