Sometimes life flies so fast that people who are striving for "tomorrow" do not have time to enjoy what they have now. Not regretting the mistakes of the past and stopping only thinking about the future is easier than you think. Thinking that you will manage to do everything in life sometime later, you forget that not everything in your destiny can be controlled and the invented “tomorrow” may turn out to be completely different from what you imagine it to be, and you cannot return the missed “today”.
Instructions
Step 1
Be honest with yourself. If you live only with the supposed future goal, spending all your energy on achieving it and associating all your hopes with it, then it is quite possible that having come to success, you either cannot fully enjoy it, or it will disappoint you. And this is not counting the fact that your goal may be unattainable, and life will pass. Enjoy what you have now, it does not negate what you may have later.
Step 2
Strive for your dream, but be prepared to pause to fully appreciate what is happening in the moment. Enjoy nature, have fun with family and friends, spend your time helping someone who needs it. Do not take these hours and minutes as wasted, remember that it is in such moments that you truly live.
Step 3
Think of today not as a stepping stone to tomorrow, but as everything you have. You cannot control the future, you can only influence it, never knowing exactly what results it can lead you to. But yours now depends on you, and if you cannot be happy in it, then yours will hardly be joyful later. Greet each day as a new opportunity to achieve some current goal. You have a whole 24 hours ahead of you - think about how you can effectively spend this wealth.
Step 4
Be generous to yourself. Complexes sometimes do not allow a person to do what he really wants today. You give yourself a vow that you will fulfill your dream someday later, when you are worthy of it, when the time is right, when you fulfill all the obligations imposed on you. The truth is, you are not even trying to do it now. In order to live in the present, you need not think about what you will do in the future, but just go and do it.
Step 5
Rise above the hustle and bustle. The crazy pace of life can lead to the fact that you will be directed like an arrow into tomorrow, trying to accomplish everything so as not to let it out of control. Always preoccupied with what will happen next, you will not even notice what is happening now. Set aside time in your schedule for momentary pleasures and enjoy them without thinking or rushing anywhere.
