Ancient wisdom, captured on the pages of sacred books in the culture of many nations, says: the fate of a person is in his language. How are these words to be understood?
An old Tibetan legend says: once a monk visited his mother and asked: "How are you?" The mother replied: "It's bad, son, I'm getting old, poverty and disease have surrounded me." “Well, it will be even worse, I will pray for you,” said the monk and left. After a while, he again visited his mother and asked how she lived. “Oh, even worse than before! Illness will soon bring me to the grave!”- answered the mother. And the monk, saddened, said: "Well, then it will be even worse …". Back at the monastery, the monk prayed that his mother would be relieved. Time passed, and he again came to his mother with the same question: "How are you, mother?" The mother replied: "You know, I feel better than before." The monk was delighted and exclaimed: "So it will be even better!" And so it happened.
Words have a certain effect on matter, can change its structure, transfer energy to it and thus direct or correct the process of existence of matter in time. In simple terms, thanks to the program that people are able to communicate with the help of words and mental images, the process of destruction, degradation, or vice versa - enrichment, strengthening, prosperity can be launched in matter.
Remember this when you hear the questions: “How are you? What's up? How are you feeling? How do you?". You can answer in a neutral way: "Normal", "Tolerant" or "Like everyone else." Never say negative words about your life: "Terrible", "Bad", "This is a nightmare" and the like.
But this is only psychological help to oneself. In fact, the impact of words on people's lives is much deeper and more serious. The words they use form an information environment capable of “building” events and circumstances, softening the “blows of fate” and attracting good emotions, luck, good people and life's blessings.
How to create a favorable atmosphere around yourself based on words?
- Don't tell sad stories, replicating "horror" attracts trouble.
- Try not to communicate with people whose language does not leave words with a negative connotation: "terrible", "nonsense", "nightmare", etc. Such negative assessments of reality can cause depression and worsen events around you, minimize the percentage of favorable outcomes of various situations, provoke even hostile circumstances in your life.
- Your vocabulary should be composed of words that express the state of love, happiness, joy. “I like”, “I love”, “how good”, “wonderful” - all these words protect your life from negativity.
- Exclude from everyday speech obscene and swear words, as well as words with degrading meanings, and of course, do not use such words when communicating with people, and not only with loved ones. The words "pig", "cattle" and others, no less offensive, should completely leave the language of communication. It is better to remain silent in response to an insult than to respond in kind. And by scolding a loved one or friends, you destroy self-love, as the foundation of a good relationship. Needless to say, this will not bring prosperity into your life?
- Try to use positive words in your family or in your environment that can characterize this environment from the best side. "We", "our", "together" and similar words will have a healing effect even where cracks have already appeared, while the abuse of the words "I", "mine", "I myself (a)" - separate and separate people from each other by the barrier of selfishness.
- Get rid of imperative moods, especially if you communicate with loved ones. Having an authoritarian way of speaking can be detrimental to a relationship: you may be able to subdue those around you, despite the occasional riots. But you will deprive yourself of true cooperation, when you can rely on the people around you even in a difficult situation.
- When voicing your plans, it is better to say “When it will be so and so” than “If it will be so and so”. When you set specific goals for yourself, trust that you will achieve them. With this attitude, you can go through the obstacles without really noticing them.
- Try to stay away from people who constantly complain - about fate and life, about your partners and loved ones, about health and financial well-being. Dissatisfaction with everyone and everything is contagious, it poisons the consciousness and leads to an inadequate perception of reality, when it seems to a person that "everything is bad." Words shape the world as much as deeds.
- Do not forget to say "Hello", "Good luck", "Thank you", as these words contain powerful messages, impulses for prosperity, and also try to express other positive wishes to other people. What has been said, acquiring material forms, will return to you more than once, and, moreover, a hundredfold.
- Feel free to thank people for even small services. Moreover, gratitude should be not only formal, you should feel it with all your heart, be grateful for what is happening in your life.
- Surround yourself with joyful, sympathetic people whose everyday vocabulary is replete with positive words. It attracts good luck, while communicating with losers who grumble at fate for or without reason destroys the prosperous atmosphere around you and your loved ones.
Everything in life is relative. Disease or lack of money, minor troubles and human imperfection - anything you can complain about will seem like paradise to people who are currently dying of cancer or sitting in basements under bombing. Therefore, assessing the state of your own life, proceed from the fact that your troubles in comparison with the misfortunes in the lives of other people - at least, look frivolous and are not a reason for gloomy feelings.
Find the positives. You are healthy? Do you have a warm home, a job you love, no hunger or war? Do you have happy children, have sincere friends, close people who will not leave you in trouble? Isn't this happiness for people who are a hundred times worse off? They would thank fate for the circumstances you are complaining about.
When making claims to the imperfection of the world and people, remember the simple truth: you are also imperfect, but someone loves you, appreciates and believes in you. Be happy, and may simple and good words help you.
