Personal failures can happen for a variety of reasons. If you want to get rid of your loneliness, figure it out. Perhaps after this, mutual love will not keep itself waiting long.
Instructions
Step 1
Do not blame fate or other people for failures in your personal life. Do not pass this problem onto someone else. Realize that the cause of your bad luck in matters of the heart is most likely due to your behavior or incorrect attitudes. This means that you yourself can make a difference. Start working on yourself, identify the reasons why you are alone, and change the situation for the better.
Step 2
Consider if your past bad experiences stand between you and your happy personal life. If you dwell on negative things that happened at some time, you subconsciously program yourself for failure. Understand: what was, you need to let go. Work on the mistakes, adjust your behavior for the future, taking into account the failed romance, and then move on. Believe that love and happiness awaits you.
Step 3
Perhaps the reason for your failure in love lies in your lack of self-confidence. If in your heart you consider yourself a person unworthy of loyalty and sincere affection, you may be pursued by bad luck in the relationship. Low self-esteem leads to outbursts of unreasonable jealousy, mistrust and, as a result, to the breakdown of the couple. Work on developing self-love.
Step 4
Sometimes loneliness is a consequence of the fact that a person makes too high demands on members of the opposite sex. Consider if you have a long list of qualities that your partner or partner must have. Stop idealizing your future chosen one or chosen one. Otherwise, the situation will not change. As you have certain flaws, so your loved one may have them.
Step 5
Perhaps, when choosing the next object of sympathy, you stop at people belonging to certain types that do not suit you. Analyze your past relationship: whether you and your partner or partner had similar tastes, worldview, plans for the future. If two personalities have nothing in common, and their romance is based solely on passion, a happy and long union will not work.
Step 6
It must be remembered that relationships will not develop on their own, they need to be regularly worked on. If you want to preserve your feelings, try to strengthen your bond with your loved one. In addition, it is important to feel a partner or a partner. Maybe you are giving your moral all for the sake of people who do not appreciate you. Try to objectively judge whether you have a future with your chosen one or chosen one.
