Troubles - as if alive - are on the heels of some people. Thoughts appear that such is the fate, and nothing can be corrected. But successful people also fail at some stages, just do not allow mistakes to be repeated.
Changing beliefs The phrase "unlucky" suggests that a person shifts responsibility to external circumstances. Imagine a cabin boy on a big ship. He cannot give commands and influence the course. Now look at the captain: he can do whatever he wants, but is responsible for what happens to the ship and the crew. Change your beliefs - become the captain of life, not a cabin boy. Time to Grow Up: Record Keeping Understanding why a ship is wobbling from side to side and unable to arrive at its destination requires records. Start a ship's log - record thoughts, moods, goals, events, ups and downs. Since ancient times, sailors check the course along the North Star. Compare the records with an authoritative source of information, then you can correct the movement. To make strategic decisions, the captain must see changes in water and air temperature, wind direction and other parameters over time. That's what records are for. If you take into account just one day, week or month, you cannot avoid misleading conclusions on a long voyage. Without notes, it is impossible to notice the nuances and patterns that happened earlier. Change of emphasis Losers tend to remember the negative - they treat their own talents badly, do not develop them, do not believe in success. Start focusing on your strengths, look for them within yourself. Keep a special diary where you write down only the good things about yourself. Planning Life is arranged in such a way that people who do not plan anything are unlucky. In this case, others plan for them - they dispose of time, resources, take away health. Everything happens according to someone's plans. Take control of your time, and you can expand your sphere of influence to make life go your way. Risk Management Successful people evaluate the plans they make in terms of weaknesses. Imagine a metal chain in which two links are connected with tape. It doesn't seem to break, but at the slightest increase in load, it will break. It can hardly be attributed to bad luck; rather, it is a lack of foresight, which is associated with an inability to manage risks. The person who wants to be successful will take the time to repair a section of the chain or buy a new chain. A loser will hope at random.
