Sometimes there are people who are chronic losers. They are always deceived, they regularly get stuck in elevators, lose money, phones and other valuable things. To fix this situation, you need to understand why you are unlucky in life.
One of the most common reasons for bad luck is pessimism. If a person sets themselves up for failure in advance, they will most likely fail. Such an individual manages to inflate any small problem to the size of a universal catastrophe. And even if everything ends well, he will find a reason for dissatisfaction.
The second reason for chronic bad luck is laziness. Psychologists say that man is a very lazy creature. And since laziness is considered a vice in society, some individuals try to justify it by saying that they are still unlucky, which means that there is no point in doing something.
The next reason for bad luck is a lack of education and intelligence, as well as an inability to think logically. A smart person is unlikely to get involved in dubious adventures, trust fraudsters and take risks. A dim-witted person is constantly "plunged" into trouble, but prefers to blame everything for his bad luck.
Psychological immaturity can also be to blame for the fact that some people are constantly deceived in their expectations. An infantile person does not know how to live in the real world, build relationships and handle feelings and emotions. She is guided by other people's rules and assessments. Most often, such people are used and deceived.
How do you get rid of the guise of a pathological failure and become a successful person? Learn to think flexibly, going beyond templates and patterns. Train your mind the way athletes train their bodies. It's never too late to start playing chess, learn how to solve charades and solve logic problems.
Defeat self-doubt. To be like everyone else is the desire of a potential loser. Successful and fortunate people are not afraid to stand out from the crowd and have their say.
Develop your intuition. Listen to your inner voice and write down the thoughts and images that arise in a notebook. Over time, you will find that your expectations are increasingly being met. The next step is the ability to accurately assess the situation and make a decision.
Tune in to the positive, think and feel like you are incredibly lucky. Live with pleasure. And luck will not pass you by!
