The ability to conduct a dialogue is a whole art, it is not without reason that it was so appreciated both in ancient times and in the period of bourgeois home salons and circles. Learn to have the right conversation and you will be a welcome guest at all events.
Instructions
Step 1
Learn to listen. It's not as easy as it sounds. For the vast majority of people, there is no sound sweeter than their own voice. When you listen to the interlocutor, analyze the information received and memorize the facts that the speaker is trying to convey to you.
Step 2
Ask again and clarify the information if you did not understand something or did not hear. It is better to clarify the situation right away than to get into an awkward position later. Don't be afraid to offend the other person with additional questions. A little clarification only shows that you are trying to understand him as best you can.
Step 3
Use facial expressions in conversation. Slightly raised eyebrows, a slight smile, a nod of the head will show the interlocutor that you are involved in the conversation.
Step 4
Pause your speech. Let the interlocutor digest the information, speak up on the topic of the conversation, or ask a question. Remember that you are in dialogue, not lecturing. Monotonous, continuous speech starts to cause boredom and irritation after a few minutes.
Step 5
Do not forget to be polite, even if the person you are talking to is unpleasant or has views that you do not share. Remember that your opponent is just as confident in his righteousness as you are, and he is free to express his opinion. Categorical and rude statements will only show your bad manners and inability to conduct a dialogue.
Step 6
Don't be afraid of pauses. Sometimes, it takes time to delve into the content of the conversation and think about what has just been said. Few have the ability to be eloquently silent. But it, like the ability to listen, is an essential quality of a great conversationalist.
Step 7
Communicate competently. Slang words, parasitic words and strong expressions, even in a close friendly circle, are permissible with restrictions. The more literate, fluent and clearly structured your speech, the faster you will convey your thought to the interlocutor.
