Sometimes lovers forget that a relationship is the work of two people. Without dialogue, it is impossible to build a lasting, harmonious union. Try to figure out what your partner or partner wants and build your love together.
Instructions
Step 1
Learn to express your feelings and tell your loved one about what's going on in your soul. Do not think that your partner or partner will guess what you want from your behavior or any hints. Better to be frank about your needs and grievances. If you keep quiet about problems, their number will only grow.
Step 2
Be prepared to listen to your loved one. If you have any skepticism or belief that only you in your couple are right, it can prevent you from building a long, happy union. There are two sides to love, two participants, and each of them is right in its own way. Learn to be tolerant and objective.
Step 3
Try to put yourself in the shoes of your partner or partner. Try to see the situation from the other side. If you do this exercise conscientiously, you will probably be able to imagine the reaction of a loved one to this or that event and better understand his position. Get in the habit of thinking sometimes like your chosen one or your chosen one.
Step 4
Establish a warm, trusting relationship in your couple. This is impossible without understanding and respect. Take the first step - treat your loved one with dignity. In return, his attitude towards you will get better too. Introduce a daily tradition of chatting, such as over dinner. Tell each other how your day went. Share new experiences. The closer and more honest you are with each other, the stronger your union will be.
Step 5
Have common goals with your loved one. If you hope for a common future, you should be united by the same tasks. When partners silently build their lives separately and do not share plans with each other, there can be no talk of any dialogue in the relationship.
Step 6
Be considerate of each other. Sometimes words are not needed for lovers to understand that something is wrong. Show sensitivity and concern. A union in which both people are exclusively occupied with themselves is doomed. Of course, you should have personal time and space, but not all the time.
Step 7
Be willing to compromise for your loved one. Some of your habits, character traits, your behavior sometimes need to be corrected. When your partner does the same for you, the relationship only gets better. It is also important in what form you express your dissatisfaction with the actions of a loved one. Speak softly, do not press on him, and in no case go to insults.
