It's nice to meet someone who is capable of being polite, interesting, and a good conversationalist. Such people always stand out from everyone else. It does not have to be an outwardly attractive or handsome person. Indeed, in order to win the favor of others and achieve success in any area, appearance alone is not enough. It happens that a completely ordinary person, thanks to the ability to establish contacts and possessing the gift of eloquence, is able to achieve great success.
In the world of information technology, with various means of communication, people pay very little attention to communicating with each other personally, without using gadgets. In fact, they simply have no idea what effect a timely spoken phrase or just a polite and interesting conversation can have on the interlocutor.
There are some simple tips that you can follow to learn how to communicate with others.
1. You need to pay attention to your own speech. It should not be fast, but measured, clear and understandable. The volume of the voice should correspond to the situation in which the communication takes place. Do not speak too quietly or go to shouting, otherwise the interlocutors may get bored with the conversation or they may simply be frightened.
2. When meeting a new person, you need to be tactful and polite. You can start a conversation with general topics, gradually finding out his interests. So you can find out if there are common interests and talk about what is most important without any discomfort.
3. In almost any situation that develops in the course of a conversation, you need to remain calm, even if the interlocutor is irritated and begins to openly show his dissatisfaction with something. It is better to gently and correctly advise not to be irritated, and if he continues to insist on his own, then just postpone the conversation.
4. With regard to internal control in communication, you should try not to use jargon, rude expressions and words that are parasites in your speech. To enrich your own speech, you can read more classical literature, listen to or watch the trainings of famous psychologists who will tell you in what situation and how to correctly apply this or that word.
A good interlocutor always has more opportunities to prove himself in various fields of activity, for example, find a worthy position, join a team or meet interesting people.
