Human charm does not depend on his appearance, success or financial income, it is made up of hooks invisible to the eye that you throw into the heart of people. It seems that you just like, but in fact, not easy, because there are several ways to become charming for everyone.
Instructions
Step 1
Establish a positive connection with the person, even if you want to express disagreement with something. You kind of have to express understanding, even if, in your opinion, the person is wrong. Smile sincerely and openly, internally wish others well, and this will be immediately felt and appreciated - they will love you and listen to you.
Step 2
Thank people for what they did for you. Create a kind of habit of saying “thank you” every time you receive something from a person. And it doesn't matter whether it was help in a difficult matter or a planned dinner prepared by your spouse - everything requires your gratitude, so let her pour out. There is nothing more enjoyable than being appreciated. And you will feel a warm look on yourself as soon as you say the next "thank you".
Step 3
Always try to praise people for their achievements, because the need for approval is in each of us, and it needs to be satisfied regularly. It is extremely important for a person to know that what he does is important and significant, and he does it well. And when he hears these praiseworthy words from you, then, no doubt, he will be sincerely grateful. Your attentiveness and sensitivity will form the basis of your charm.
Step 4
Feel free to compliment people. Of course, they shouldn't turn into hypocrisy, but it is important that your words of admiration reflect reality. Point out that you like your friend's outfit, or show your admiration for your friend's ability to resolve conflicts and get things done. There is a quality in every person that you can speak about with sympathy.
Step 5
Pay more attention to people, reach out to them, listen and go first to contact. The more you look in their direction, the more important they feel. Accordingly, their sympathy for you increases, you become a very pleasant and charming person for them, with whom you do not want to interrupt communication.
