Sometimes one hears complaints from girls: “I have my appearance - even for the cover of a magazine, and the parameters are classic, and I dress stylishly, and have an impeccable hairstyle, make-up, and the guys bypass it! But Masha cannot boast of beauty, her figure is far from ideal, she dresses modestly, but young people are drawn to her like a magnet! What kind of injustice? " Indeed: why is the "written beauty" sometimes lonely, and young people are vying with each other to look after the same ordinary-looking Masha.
Instructions
Step 1
Yes, this situation is not so rare. The girl is generously gifted with fate: beautiful, slim, smart, well-to-do. What, it would seem, can be problems with your personal life? But she does not have that inexplicable natural magnetism that fascinates and irresistibly attracts the opposite sex. And as a result, her beauty, instead of attracting guys, alarms and scares them away.
Step 2
But don't despair. A girl, if desired and persistent, may well learn to behave in such a way as to charm almost any man. First of all, she needs to firmly remember what qualities of the weaker sex attract men, make a woman charming in their eyes. And also the fact that men very clearly distinguish between the concepts of "flirting" and "married life." Accordingly, they willingly have romances with fatal beauties, but marry those girls in whom they see kindness, loyalty, patience and understanding.
Step 3
Therefore, if you want to look charming, irresistible in the eyes of young people, learn first of all to be kind, cheerful, generous. The guy should be good, comfortable in your company. No scenes, whims, tears, inexplicable (for a man) mood swings! There is simply no better way to alienate a young person. Learn to control yourself at all times.
Step 4
Listen carefully, without interrupting, to the guy, no matter what he is talking about. If you are well versed in the subject, ask short clarifying questions from time to time. If his story is not interesting to you or is completely incomprehensible to you, try to carefully, tactfully transfer the conversation to another topic. The guy will surely appreciate your behavior.
Step 5
Try to get as many positive emotions as possible. Learn to enjoy the simplest natural things: clear, sunny weather, a beautiful flower in a flower bed, a sincere smile of a baby who is being taken for a walk in a stroller. And this joy will imperceptibly become your nature, creating around you a warm, benevolent aura, the very charm that, like a magnet, attracts the opposite sex.
