To determine whether a person is lying or not, signs will help - be more observant of your interlocutor, take a closer look at his body language, listen to the tone of his voice - all this will help determine a lie. But do not blame him for deception at the slightest suspicion, because lying can also have good reasons.
It is necessary
- Observation
- Insight
- Composure
- Patience
Instructions
Step 1
To spot a lie, pay close attention to the body language of those around you. For example, sure signs that a person is lying are that they are avoiding eye contact or acting nervous.
Step 2
Notice inconsistencies and inconsistencies in what the person is telling you. Remember everything - the time frame of the described incident, mistakes and mixing of details, different interpretations of the same story. All of these things will help reveal the lie.
Step 3
A clear sign by which you can determine a lie is a person's unwillingness to answer any questions. If he behaves aggressively in response to questioning, chances are he is hiding something.
Step 4
If your interlocutor tries to accuse you of lying, when there are no obvious reasons for this, this may indicate that he is the one who is deceiving you. By blaming you, he projects his emotions outward, thereby reducing guilt.
Step 5
In some cases, intuition helps to determine the lie, which tells you that the person is lying. But do not try to jump straight to accusations, justify your feelings and conjectures with the help of evidence.
Step 6
Ask the other person directly if they are lying or not. Many people feel terrible when caught red-handed and wish to relieve their souls with recognition.
