People always want to know the truth about a particular event. But often those who are interested are deceived. There is no such person who would not lie to his parents, soulmate or friends. Agree, each of us wants to know if our interlocutor is telling us the truth at the moment. And to determine this is not so difficult, it is enough to look closely at some of the details of the speaker's behavior.
It is necessary
The book "New body language. Extended version", A. Pease, B. Pease, 2006
Instructions
Step 1
Change in the expression of a person's emotions. When he lies, reactions and emotions slow down, their expression differs from the usual, there is a feeling of inadequacy of behavior.
Step 2
There is a slightly larger spacing between the spoken words than usual. Also, this interval can be accompanied by some kind of facial expressions (for example, praising someone and realizing what we said, most likely we will smile). If the person is not lying, emotions will arise in parallel with words, because there is no need to ponder what has been said.
Step 3
His facial expression may not match what he says. Usually, when expressing emotions in a person, the whole face is involved. For example, a sincere smile involves the mouth, muscles of the cheeks, eyes, nose, and sometimes even the ears. The eyes also express affection. If a smile is insincere, not all of its components can be used.
Step 4
Psychologists say that, when telling a lie, a person is usually pinched, his movements are slightly constrained. An inexperienced liar will not be able to look you in the eyes, will begin to avoid direct gaze, turn away his head or whole body.
Step 5
Some gestures can also indicate the sincerity of the spoken information. Multiple touches to the nose and ears, and sometimes to the region of the heart, indicate that the speaker is lying.
Step 6
Conversation tactics can change dramatically. Liars prefer defense to the offensive, answer questions more often than ask them, and may also begin to repeat themselves unconsciously.
Step 7
A lying person, without realizing it, can choose a place for a conversation with some objects and will make the object serve as a kind of barrier, being between you.
Step 8
The deceiver will always answer the question with your own words so that the answer is most consistent with the question, but at the same time he will never be the first to go into the details of the case in question.
Step 9
Ambiguous answers, lack of specifics are a clear sign of lies. A person who is confident in what he is saying will say everything clearly, clearly and distinctly.
Step 10
Another sign of a lie is the lack of intonation in the voice, missing words, violation of the structure of the spoken and the rules of the Russian language. Those who are especially experienced may deliberately confuse sentences in order to mislead you.
Step 11
If you suspect someone is lying to you, try changing the subject. The interlocutor who is unclean in thoughts will gladly replace her, the tension will subside, the behavior will change greatly. The person will start to say too much, constantly add something. Silence in conversation also drives the liar out of himself.
