It's nice to deal with honest people. But how to check a person's intentions when you see him for the first time in your life, and the outcome of an important matter depends on his words and promises? It turns out that you can identify a liar and an honest person by several visual signs. Of course, it is easier to test an old acquaintance for honesty than a stranger. We get used to the habits and character of our friends, and unusual behavior is immediately evident.
Instructions
Step 1
The emotional state of the interlocutor must correspond to his words. For example, if your colleague congratulates you on a successfully completed assignment, then his facial expression should shine with a smile, and not look dejected, sad.
Step 2
If you are negotiating, then pay attention to the position of the partner. In the case when a person presses his legs and arms to himself, crossing them, is located in a limited area of a chair or chair, then he does not finish saying something. At the same time, he avoids looking into the eyes of the interlocutor, touches his hair, and his body is directed in the opposite direction from you.
Step 3
Follow the conversation of the interlocutor. If his words are confused, then this can be attributed to excitement, but when he "floats" in answers to specific questions, diligently avoiding this topic of conversation, then you should be on your guard. You can feel how a person relaxes when he talks on extraneous topics and how he strains in the case of a given direction of negotiations. The deceiver often resorts to the verbal phrases of his interlocutor, repeats his own words after him and defends himself more than asking attacking questions. The dishonest person tries to reduce the conversation to a joke, gestures theatrically and develops the topic that is of interest to him. Such a person does not tolerate pauses in a conversation and leaves it to himself to end.
