When we meet a stranger, we intuitively determine whether he is sympathetic to us. As a rule, we like people who are similar to our type, with whom you are on the same wavelength. Some have such a powerful energy that they inevitably attract the eye, catch. But in the assessment of a given person there may be negative sides.
It is necessary
communication skills - an objective assessment
Instructions
Step 1
When we meet a stranger, we intuitively determine whether he is sympathetic to us. As a rule, we like people who are similar to our type, with whom you are on the same wavelength. Some have such a powerful energy that they inevitably attract the eye, catch. But in the assessment of a given person there may be negative sides.
Step 2
Until now, the saying is relevant: we meet by clothes - we see off in the mind. Clean tidy clothes and shoes, neat hairstyle at all times have been and remain the first criteria for evaluating a person. Although in appearance one can already judge his intellectual level.
Step 3
Of course, in assessing a person, you need to listen to your intuition. But there are also pitfalls. Evaluation criteria are different for everyone. In the first minutes of communication, you involuntarily pay attention to the eyes of a person. If the look is open, benevolent, then you already begin to feel sympathy for it on a purely energetic level.
Step 4
Further, we already assess his ability to formulate his thoughts, if a person does not know how to do this, then he will seem incomprehensible and uninteresting to us. After all, it is difficult to communicate with a person who, perhaps, has a rich vocabulary, but he did not learn how to express thoughts correctly. The culture of communication is an important assessment criterion.
Step 5
A person with a non-standard worldview, an active life position, and creative potential becomes the center of any society. He is literally "stuffed" with new ideas that he certainly wants to bring to life. Plus to everything - he is tolerant in communication. You will certainly want to communicate with such people, unless, of course, the unpleasant properties of his character are revealed: envy, anger, dishonesty.
Step 6
Demeanor is also an important criterion in assessing a person. It's one thing - not being complex, but another thing - gaps in upbringing. A person who does not know how to behave correctly is annoying and repulsive. Everything should be in moderation. And this is not because we think in a formulaic way. It's just more pleasant for us to communicate with understanding and tactful people.
