Colleagues weave intrigues, putting you in an unfavorable light, neighbors gossip behind your back? Are you tired of eternal scandals at home and at work, but you cannot imagine how you can stop evil gossip and squabbles, the reason for which is not always clear?
Tired of evil gossip: what to do?
To make evil gossips bite their tongues and avoid new scandals and intrigues, you can adhere to some rules so as not to give gossips and gossips an extra reason to scratch their tongues.
- Try to start by minimizing your interactions with people who like to spread gossip, even if it’s your best friend. However, do not do it ostentatiously, move away gradually so as not to give rise to new gossip of the week.
- Do not go for frankness with unfamiliar people and with those who like to spread gossip. The less you talk about your personal life, the less reason your neighbors will gossip. But do not seek to withdraw into yourself, communicate as before, but talk less about your problems.
- Do not spread rumors about others yourself, do not convey what the person has shared with you, let you do it without bad intent. You can never be sure that your words will not be turned inside out and presented to this person in this form. Women's gossip is especially dangerous in this sense.
- If you are accused of something, never try to make excuses, it will only add fuel to the fire and add enthusiasm to the gossipers. If you have a reasoned fact, present it to your schemers, otherwise do not react to provocation at all. In this case, they will not have a new reason for evil gossip, scandals and squabbles.
Remember that intrigues are weaved around those people who are feared, and they like to spread gossip about those who are different from others. Therefore, do not take everything you hear to heart. In a sense, gossip, intrigue and squabbles are even useful - they make you become mentally stronger. Don't let scandals, intrigue and gossip stifle your personality!
