Some people are so intrusive and unpleasant in communication that all desire to meet and talk with them disappears. You can get rid of annoyance in various ways.
Instructions
Step 1
Ignore an individual you dislike extremely. Do not meet with him, do not answer his calls and messages. Pretend the person doesn't exist for you. Sooner or later, the individual must understand that they do not want to communicate with him, and stop bothering you. If this did not happen, then you have come across a particularly stubborn person or person who does not understand such transparent hints. In such situations, you can try another method.
Step 2
Sharply limit communication with an unpleasant individual. When meeting with him, pretend that you are in a hurry somewhere. Make constant reference to urgent matters. Answer in monosyllables, only "yes" or "no", do not ask yourself any questions. Gradually, your dialogue will turn into a monologue, and the person simply will not be able to maintain it. The topic for conversation will dry up, and, perhaps, the individual will understand that he is not interesting to you. Don't make eye contact with the person. Look to the side, at your feet. Talk to him on the phone. Show your neglect and busyness in every way. Of course, such treatment can offend the individual, but he will lag behind you once and for all.
Step 3
If the person annoying you has strong sympathy for you, it will not be so easy to get rid of him. When you know what attracts him to you, you can change a certain trait of your character or appearance, as well as adjust your behavior. Seeing a dramatic change in you, your annoying admirer can cool down on you, leave you alone and find a new object for his compulsive courtship. Be very careful with such people. They are ready to accept any manifestation of a simple good human attitude for encouraging their actions, and then they become even more persistent. Therefore, it is important to be cold and emphatically indifferent with them.
Step 4
It happens that you are bothered by a person from whom you cannot just brush it off. For example, you are forced to communicate with him on duty, or you are connected by family ties. In this case, ignoring will look rather strange, and you should not go for rudeness at all. You are left with two options: either silently endure and try to be distracted by more pleasant thoughts when you have to communicate with this individual, or talk to him. Challenge the person for a frank conversation and calmly explain what exactly in his behavior is unacceptable. Maybe you will be able to influence the individual and establish a relationship with him. It all depends on how diplomatic you are.
