Modesty is a very positive quality. It can come from the character of the person. Or be acquired through parenting. In any case, you should not be ashamed of this feature. Moreover, for a serious relationship, most men choose modest, decent girls. But there are situations when you just need to stop being modest.
Instructions
Step 1
When is humility not a virtue but a disadvantage? This quality is not the first on the list of character traits useful in promotion. To be noticed by the management, you cannot be modest. On the contrary, you need to boldly come up with new ideas, proposals for optimizing the work process, and suggest solutions to difficult problems. Of course, this way all your activities will be in full view of the boss. And you won't be able to sit quietly in the corner. But you will not vegetate in one position until retirement. And to move up the career ladder, the boss will choose you.
Step 2
Modest people are also usually shy. And very often they are simply afraid to ask for anything. Although, if you really need help, there is nothing to worry about asking for a service. Especially if you ask people who will also receive money for the service rendered. For example, don't be afraid to ask the salesperson to bring you a couple more things to the fitting room. Consultants receive a percentage of any product sold, so consider that their service is already included in the price.
Step 3
Also, modesty will be superfluous in all kinds of government agencies - the pension fund, the tax service, the traffic police, and so on. Unfortunately, most local officials still adhere to the old, Soviet model of behavior. And constant breaks for tea, delaying reception, vague answers to questions asked are still not uncommon. But it is not only possible to fight this, but also necessary. Do not forget that the salary of officials consists of taxpayers' money. This means that you also pay for the existence of these citizens. That is, the expression "servant of the people" has a very real basis. Therefore, feel free to enter the office of the official you need during reception hours. Do not back down if you are asked to come in an hour, a day, a month, a century. You have come now and now you will decide your question. And if suddenly there is opposition to you - contact a higher organization with a claim.
Step 4
It's easy to stop being humble. Practice is key. Communicate more with strangers, start a conversation first, look for new friends. Find yourself a passion or hobby that involves actively interacting with others. Change the job to one that allows you to show all your merits. Then modesty will turn from the main quality of your character into a pleasant addition. And you will become a confident, strong modern woman.
