Striving every day to be better and happier than yesterday is a very worthy goal for a person. It remains only to decide which qualities of self-sufficiency are so important to develop in oneself.
He is kind
Not every kind person is self-sufficient, but every self-sufficient person is kind. Our life is so arranged that, when you come to complete acceptance of yourself, you accept others as well. In this case, it is impossible to remain an evil, greedy and hating person.
It is authentic
Authenticity in psychology is a person's authenticity to himself. No masks in front of others, no deceiving oneself. You are transparent. You know how you feel. You see how you behave. You are who you are.
He is honest
A self-sufficient person does not need to deceive anyone. They are not afraid to be not who others want to see - because their real self is valuable to them. They are not afraid to admit their mistakes, because they understand that mistakes are also part of the whole that they are.
He is responsible and reliable
They trust themselves, so it is very important for them that others trust them as well. They consider it beneath their dignity to deceive, betray and let other people down. Other people are as valuable to them as they are, so respect comes first.
He understands the value of time
Like the previous point, they respect other people's time as much as their own. They know that time is the most valuable resource in life, because it is the only one that cannot be replenished.
He is calm
Self-sufficient people are emotionally stable. No troubles, rudeness or stress can drive them out of themselves, because for them it is the personality that is stronger than all the adversities that pass in life. It is the personality that is able to control emotional storms, and not vice versa.
He knows how to ask for forgiveness
Asking for forgiveness where justified is as natural for self-sufficient people as breathing. Pride is not about them. Relationships and the ability to see your mistakes are much more important in this world - and self-sufficient people understand this perfectly.
He does not envy others
They simply have no reason for this. Even if something in their life is going wrong now, this is a reason to make efforts in the right direction and get the missing one. This is just a task that needs to be solved, but not a reason to suffer that others already have it.
He is sincere
Self-sufficient people do not need to pretend and lie. And they also have no need to remain silent and remain silent. They are open and not afraid to be vulnerable, because they are truly strong-minded people.
He does not create idols for himself
Whole people know their own worth and also know the worth of other people. For them there is no mystery in human shortcomings, they know that mistakes are made even by the most flawless. Therefore, self-sufficient people boldly learn from the best, but do not worship anyone unquestioningly.
He is not bored with himself
Self-sufficient people always have something to do, learn, enjoy and just dream alone. They really consider themselves to be an interesting person, and sometimes life is not enough to enjoy being with themselves. They are not afraid of being alone.
He does not teach others to live
Self-sufficient people do not tolerate obsessive advice in their direction, but they themselves never teach anyone or try to remake. They know how unique each life experience is and know that only oneself can fill the bumps. They also believe that everyone is able to decide for himself how he wants to live this life.
