You can change your life at any age. Even if for a long time nothing has developed or has collapsed, you can do everything differently. You will have to start with yourself, with a change of thoughts, desires, and then actions.
Instructions
Step 1
The age of 30 is not even the middle of life, this is the time when many people start all over again. There is still an opportunity to continue your studies, you can change jobs and find your mate. But first, work on the bugs. Think about why the past experience was not successful, what prevented you from being happy. Try not to blame anyone, but to find inaccuracies in your behavior. Usually a person creates the circumstances himself, you just need to see how it happened. Try not to make these mistakes again in the future.
Step 2
Determine for yourself what kind of life will suit you in 3 years. Draw in your mind an image in which you are successful and happy. This picture will be different for everyone, since the requests differ, as well as the methods of implementation. Try to pay attention to details, answer what you do there, how you make money, what is in your world, with whom you communicate. Write down the results you get, this will be the point to aim for.
Step 3
When there is a goal, you need to decide how to go to it. Write down what you can do to make it come true. For example, you saw yourself in a prestigious job. To be hired for such a position, you need education, work experience, a desire for development and knowledge. Do you have it all, are you ready to learn, strive for results and start small? Draw a chain to your goal, indicate what you need to do today on the way to it, what in a month, and what in a year. Also write down everything about relationships, property. It is important to set not only the actions, but also the timing of what is happening. Of course, in time they will be slightly corrected, but there should not be large shifts.
Step 4
A plan of action has been drawn up in front of you. Look at it realistically, it might be too voluminous. A person often dreams of many things, but it is difficult to go through the path to everything. If you see any parts you don't want to do, cross them out. Sometimes you don't need to be successful in all areas to be happy. After all, even after 3 years you will have time to go to your dreams.
Step 5
Start following the points that you have created for yourself. Make a daily plan every day to create the achievements of the month. Try to get what you want. Think more often about what you dream to be. And it is for this that you work every day. Remember that a new life is created by you, everything that you can do will remain with you, and periods of laziness and fatigue will only postpone your dream. You need to do something to change your life. And the passed stages, intermediate achievements will give inspiration to continue.
