You can control a man. The only question is, is it necessary? Was it possible that an adult before meeting you could not do without daily control, for example, from your parents? Even if this did not happen, in a good family, as the Russian proverb says: "The husband is the head, and the wife is the neck."
Instructions
Step 1
Think about whether the relationship that exists at the moment between you is so bad that something urgently needs to be radically changed.
Step 2
Take a pen and paper and, dividing the sheet into two columns, describe the positive and negative traits of your man. If you have doubts on some points (for example, when deciding whether he is generous, does he give unnecessary reasons for jealousy, etc.), pay special attention in the future to his reaction about money, other women, etc. etc. You may have missed something in the past.
Step 3
Don't tell him that you are going to control him. If you are not yet married, do not be the first to talk about going to the registry office. If you have been firmly married for a long time, do not immediately start demanding from him a daily detailed account of his affairs. Exercise control over a man gradually, without stopping to read personal correspondence by e-mail and spy on him while working.
Step 4
Start a conversation about his parents, about his hobbies outside of work, advise him to meet with friends more often. To do this, use the form, not an order, but a request, for example: "Something you haven't visited your mother for a long time." Or, “I'm so tired today, dear. Maybe you will leave me for a while, go to a bar, sit with friends?"
Step 5
The day after his visit to his parents or get-togethers with friends, suddenly start a conversation with him about his hobby with the words: “While you were not at home, dear, I found interesting information on the Internet about new fishing methods (rowing in kayaks, sawing with a jigsaw, crochet) . Be sure to find this information beforehand. And don't ask him about what he did yesterday. It is likely that a man, encouraged by your attention to him, will tell you about it himself.
Step 6
Gradually learn to share all his hobbies with a man. But don't push yourself. If today he wants to go on the oars alone or with friends, let him go. With genuine interest and curiosity, ask the neophyte to talk about how the friendly competition went, who won, what facial expression the loser had, etc. Pay attention to who or what else the man will talk about when answering your questions.
Step 7
Never argue with a man, even if he is wrong on any issue, if you do not want to grow out of him a tyrant or a weak, hunted creature, exhausted by complexes. But don't give in either.
Step 8
State your opinion and ask the man for advice or additions. If your opinions differ dramatically, do as he says, but with certain assumptions, so that later you can fix everything.
Step 9
Do not tell him then: "You see, I was right." Say, "Let's try another option."
Step 10
Pay attention to the man's reaction to these words. If he hasn't changed his point of view, don't insist. In the end, any man sooner or later realizes his defeat and, if you are dear to him, will come to you for advice.
Step 11
Do not forget about those points on which you have not been able to decide until the end. If a man regrets money even for his hobbies or invites ladies on a fishing trip who do not know which side the hook is on the rod, you should think about whether this subject is worth your attention at all. The same applies to other points that have caused you difficulty. After all, any person is to some extent a child, and how honestly he tries to win allows us to determine the degree of his sincerity in front of himself and those around him.
