Almost every representative of the beautiful half of humanity has complexes due to appearance. Appearance parameters play far from the main role in the size of the complex and the severity of experiences. Sometimes objectively attractive women suffer terribly because of a detail that most people around them will not pay attention to. The complexes do not add success and joy, you need to get rid of them. At the same time, do not frighten people with feigned self-confidence and do not drive feelings deep inside.
Instructions
Step 1
Immerse yourself in the banal truth: you need to love yourself. Do not convince yourself that "it can be worse", do not "come to terms" with your fate, swallowing tears. Do not tell yourself through repeated repetitions that you are "the most charming and attractive." Although the latter is preferable, it is also not an option. It is necessary not to inspire, but to see. Feel the difference, as they say.
Step 2
Objectively evaluate the winning and losing sides of your appearance. Well, then it is clear - emphasize the advantages, hide the disadvantages … Where possible - improve, where not - take it as it is and try to change your attitude.
Step 3
Do not give up your femininity, even if you consider appearance to be the last of your virtues. Let it be so, but it should not be neglected. A man in a skirt will surprise no one now, so you will not receive a prize for originality, but your personal life may suffer. Fortunately, representatives of the strong half of humanity still want to see a woman as a woman.
Step 4
Choose your own style. It sounds trite, but few people use it. The mistake of many is the trade-off between style and "sound calculation", which takes into account a lot of recommendations that help to hide the revealed shortcomings. The result can be ridiculous. But the main thing is to be beautiful! Do not be afraid to go beyond the generally accepted truths from the "light plump" series, be guided by your own taste.
Step 5
Stop focusing solely on your appearance. First of all, this is advice to those who, not without reason, consider themselves a beauty, but are worried about the fact that some parameters do not fit into generally accepted norms. The downside is complete indifference to appearance, and the reason, in addition to ordinary laziness, is the same. “If I’m not the most beautiful, then is it worth the effort,” thinks yesterday’s frequenter of boutiques and beauty salons. The truth is somewhere in between.
