When people around you seem completely boring, uninteresting, stupid, narcissistic people, there is no desire to communicate with them. But deliberately isolating yourself from everyone is the wrong choice, because you live in a society where it is almost impossible to avoid contact with people. In addition, it is much easier and happier to live, giving others good and positive, which will definitely return to you.
Instructions
Step 1
Get rid of negativity towards others: do not think badly of them, do not criticize. It is impossible to love those about whom you contemplate with displeasure, contempt, or anger. Send people good mentally and tune in to the positive - this, firstly, will be expressed in words, and you will treat others better, and secondly, without anger and a gloomy face, they themselves will reach for you. Falling in love with people who are disposed to you will not be difficult.
Step 2
Change your mind about others - they are as interesting people as you are. You can verify this with the help of ordinary conversation: find common ground, that is, topics that are important to you and your interlocutors, ask about hobbies that may well turn out to be similar. You have more in common with others than you think, because they probably watch movies, TV shows, read books, follow the news, or are fond of music. Once you are interested in people, you will love them, and it will be mutual.
Step 3
Be condescending to the shortcomings of others. You do not like the fact that they are discussing you behind your back, digging into the past or personal life, but the people with whom you contact will always be interested in what is happening in your house, because they are who they are. You will not change them, but this is not a reason to stop communicating with them - just change your attitude towards the situation and do not take it so seriously. Remember that you also have weaknesses that others forgive, while continuing to love you, so will you.
Step 4
Find positive qualities in those around you. People value each other mainly for the good that they see in a person. Be grateful to a colleague who greets you with a smile every day, despite the early morning, or to a neighbor who handed you a letter that fell into his mailbox by mistake. Pay attention to such seemingly insignificant little things, because people are made up of them, because if people around you do not save lives every day, this does not mean that they have nothing to respect and love.
Step 5
Don't jump to premature conclusions. If an acquaintance who promised to do this did not call you back, do not judge him in the heat of the moment, but sort out the situation - perhaps his phone is dead or he is sick. Give others a second chance. If the same person deceives and disappoints over and over again, then stop communicating with him, but do not generalize other people in his person. Do not forget that among those around you there are individuals who lie, do not keep their word, gossip, etc., but this is not a reason to abstract from people and not love them.
