Probably, there are not many people who can experience all the good and bad inside themselves without sharing it with others. On the one hand, this is not bad, because for this there are close people with whom you can share the most intimate. But there are things that it is better not to talk about, because the disclosure of these secrets can lead to a whole series of problems.
Nowhere and no one should you tell about what is happening in your family. Joys, unexpected cash flows, quarrels - all this should remain within the family. And, as the sages say, it is better to quarrel with your husband five times than tell your friend about it once. Talking about your troubles and problems in your personal life, there is a chance to multiply bad moments.
Charity, donations, physical and moral assistance - all this also needs to be kept secret. Firstly, you provide any charitable assistance not for praise, but for your own peace of mind, and, secondly, there will always be people who will use your kindness and desire to help for their own selfish purposes.
You do not need to tell strangers about some of your achievements: a diet that has brought results, getting up early in order to have time to do chores, loyalty to your husband or partner, forced savings, and so on. Talking about his achievements and conclusions, a person is able to become proud, and pride, as you know, is a mortal sin and above should be moral asceticism.
Having done a good deed, you should not trumpet about it at every corner, and even more so demand a reward for it. The display of courage or heroism is your personal choice or a test sent from above, and it is certainly not worth talking about.
Nowhere or anyone should be told that your food is made from inexpensive food. In this case, what is important and how is prepared and served, and not how much the ingredients were bought. Telling the interlocutor sitting with you at the table about the cheapness of food, you can completely discourage your appetite and ruin your mood. Food taken in such a situation will not be of any benefit.
In no case should you gossip or tell other people's secrets, swear or simply gossip. Upon returning home, you should not retell to the household all that was seen and heard during the day, especially if there are obscene words or jargon. By spreading such information inside the house, you can lead to a violation of the inner harmony of the home.
In no case should you talk about your ambitious plans until they are fully implemented. Remember the saying: "if you want to make God laugh, tell him about your plans." The best way to spoil what is planned is to tell everyone in the world about it.
