There are people who live with an eye on those around them, are afraid to express their own opinions and are prone to constant doubts. If you consider yourself to be one of them, it's time for you to become more independent, strong and confident person.
Instructions
Step 1
To become a more independent person, you need to stop trying to please everyone. The desire to be approved by others and accepted by others is natural. But in order to preserve your own individuality, it is important to understand that the whole world cannot be your audience. Focus on the impression you make on yourself. Don't be afraid to offend someone by refusing to do something. Do not worry that someone lowly appreciates your data, abilities, human qualities. Don't live only for others.
Step 2
Learn to take responsibility for your own actions. This means that you must realize that everything that happens is your fault or merit. You yourself build your own life and are responsible for the consequences of your words and actions. Sometimes important decisions need to be made. Sometimes it is difficult to take a fatal step, but you cannot shift the responsibility onto others. An independent person understands that sometimes a certain risk is necessary. Be a more determined and courageous person.
Step 3
You should not constantly worry about any actions you have done in the past. Admit your mistakes, learn from them and draw conclusions for the future. Focus on the present and future. Endless reflection will not help you become a free, confident person. Treat what happened as a wise life lesson. It is thanks to some moments from the past that you became more experienced and smarter. Now is the time for new achievements, not sad memories.
Step 4
Live your life. Don't be jealous of other people. There will always be someone smarter, more beautiful, richer, more successful, more active than you. Do not be guided by others, do not compare yourself with anyone. A sign of a strong, independent, mature personality is self-acceptance and self-love. Be more confident in yourself. Do not build your life after the example of some person, even a very successful one. Trust yourself more and believe in your own strengths.
Step 5
Be a self-sufficient person. Try to realize yourself in life. This can be done through work or hobbies. Try to emphasize your own personality. Develop your talents. Don't be afraid to be alone. Morally strong, independent people appreciate the minutes of solitude and use them for self-improvement. Your happiness should not depend on other people. You yourself create your own mood and joy in life.
