Not every person can say that he lives the life that he created for himself. This is the lot of strong people. But you can become such a person if you stop depending on the opinions of parents, friends, colleagues at work and start thinking in a new way.
Necessary
- Introspection
- Work on self-esteem
- Honesty to yourself
Instructions
Step 1
First you need to work on your self-esteem. Make sure to love and appreciate yourself, for a person who hates himself is not capable of managing his life. He is mired in his own negativity, and only does what he strives to find the negativity in everyone else. Believe in yourself, and then nothing will stop you from changing in the direction you want.
Step 2
Answer yourself the following questions: who makes you feel better, who makes you feel worse, who controls your thoughts? You must answer all these questions to yourself "I". A person is simply obliged to strictly control himself and his thoughts. Otherwise, each thought can begin to control a person, which should not be allowed.
Step 3
Don't set yourself impossible goals. Nothing gives strength as the implementation of the plan. And the impracticable goals will remain unfulfilled, which will only frustrate you.
Step 4
Treat every event in your life as relevant and important. Even if now something separates you from your goal. Don't let bad thoughts take over. Since every bad thought brings along other negative thoughts and situations. Thoughts are material because the spiritual and material worlds are inseparable.
Step 5
Introduce yourself as often as possible the person you want to be. This mental image must be constantly kept in mind. You will see that over time, you and your life will begin to match the image that exists in your imagination.
