It is generally accepted that a woman differs from a man in her patience. She can endure for a long time the same man who causes her moral and sometimes physical pain. Is it always good? Do I have to endure and is this such a good feminine quality?
Feminine quality
Women are known to be very patient creatures. They often and for a long time can tolerate from men what they should never do. For many of them, this is exactly what - patience has spoiled and continues to spoil life. But everything comes to an end someday. In order for him to come as quickly as possible, a woman must know that there are things that she should never forgive her man, whether he is a husband or a friend.
What can not be tolerated
There are cases that lovely ladies, in order to protect themselves morally and physically, in no case should endure.
- One of the worst, but not uncommon, situations is beatings. It is known that "even the grave will not fix a humpbacked man" - this means that if a man raised his hand, run right away. This can also include the fact when the husband, and especially if he is the stepfather of your child, beats your child.
- Many women endure her husband's betrayal for years. Yes, it is possible that one mistake can be forgiven, but if they are regular, then this is already a pathology. Don't make your life hell!
- Any addiction - alcohol, drugs, games and something like that - is a serious illness that practically cannot be cured. This should be remembered! Yes, it is imperative to try to help a person, but only if he himself wants it and not to the detriment of women's health.
- There are a few more things that a man may have. If they are, then the woman's life also becomes unbearable - this is jealousy, and also greed. Doctors claim that they can be pathological and completely change the human psyche. Are all women ready to live with a mentally ill person?
- Selfishness should be attributed to the above pathology. This is when a man is "god and king." Near him everything should be spinning at his first request. Male selfishness can turn a woman into a slave.
Of course, there are all sorts of situations and no one calls upon seeing in their man something of the above, to run headlong, but "turn on your head" is absolutely necessary!
Work
Often employers also use women's patience. Work is an important part of life, but even here you should not be tolerated when supervisors or coworkers use you.
- You should not endure year after year the manager's promise to raise your salary for a good job. If this continues for a long time, then put the question "squarely" or leave it.
- Work is not a prison. If you check your every step on it, you are often punished for little things, you overwork - do not tolerate, look for a new job.
- I like work and it is yours, but the team is what prevents you from doing your job, feeling comfortable. Change your team.
Whatever happens at work, you must remember that you are on it for the third part of the day. She should be comfortable, comfortable and loved. And also it should be remembered that any working woman has her own legal rights. No boss has the right to violate them, even if a woman has "iron" patience.
