Children are taught to fill their own worth since childhood: if you are not a good child, you will not get candy. And the kid, even if he just smashed the vase and tugged at the cat's tail, strives to look better in front of his parents. In adulthood, this trait persists in many. People want to look good in the eyes of colleagues, friends, teachers, and a loved one. But is it really that bad?
Instructions
Step 1
It is worthwhile to fill your own worth when there is at least some reason for this. If you signed up for a dance studio and tell an admiring friend about tango and salsa, you are cleverly adding to your worth. If you have never danced these dances and decide to just brag to look your best in the eyes of others, remember that you may be invited to dance.
Step 2
First of all, it’s worth building your own worth in order … to gain your own worth. That is, to achieve higher wages for your labor. If you decide to move from one company to another and indicate the expected salary in your resume, do not hesitate to write the desired figure and do not say "how much you pay, that will suit you" - it is in the boss's best interest to pay you less. List the courses you completed in your resume, tell us which awards you won, which competitions you won, mark everything, even if it was a school theater group. Let the boss understand what a valuable and comprehensively developed employee he takes to his team.
Step 3
It’s worth it for the teachers at the university to fill their own worth. Remember the "record-book rule". For a student who has proven himself well, the teachers are determined to give a higher mark on the exam than a C grade student who decides to learn the subject by heart. Try to answer in the classroom, participate in conferences, and the teacher will give you great, even if you "float" when answering a question.
Step 4
You need to be careful about filling your own worth in front of your loved one. If you are really close, he will quickly notice that you lied and are not at all a parachuting champion. You can embellish information about yourself at the very beginning of your acquaintance, but in the future you will have to correspond to what was said so as not to fall in the eyes of your passion. If you are a strong person, then such a price increase will allow you not only to look favorably in the eyes of your beloved, but also to improve yourself.
