Low self-esteem is most often associated with unfavorable family relationships. If a person has been told something negative for years, he absorbed it into his soul. Such a person must be helped to believe in himself.
Instructions
Step 1
Take care of the person. Both children and adults need the realization that someone is not indifferent to them. By showing ordinary care, you are actually proving your love. This does not mean that everything should be done instead of a person. But he must be confident that you will lend a shoulder in case of any difficulties.
Step 2
Tell the person who loves him. We all need words of love. It is not enough to do something for a person; you also need to say kind words. Continually talk about all the people who love this person. Let him know about it. Tell us about how people died during the war so that we can live now. Tell us how dearly it was paid for the life of each of us. Tell about firefighters, doctors, people of other professions who fight for people's lives every day. Tell how God gave His Son to suffer because he loves us. What a dear price paid for each person! Someone sheds blood to keep us alive. Therefore, you should not rate yourself low.
Step 3
Create an opportunity for the person to take care of someone. When a person shows concern for others, he begins to respect himself. Let him do something for the elderly or the little ones. Thanks to this, he will feel strong and will know that someone needs him in this world. How to push a person to this? This is very easy to do. Bake pies and ask them to take them to some grandmother. Visit the orphanage and arrange to bring books and toys there. Then pack up some things at home and take them to the orphanage together. You can think of many situations like this. Just look around. The world groans from lack of love and disinterested care. How many disabled, desperate, lonely. Make your ward feel stronger, younger, healthier than someone else. Such a contrast will help to perk up the soul and feel useful to someone.
