From time to time, each person sums up the experience. And if the results of the life path seem disappointing, and half of your life has already been lived, then this is an occasion to reconsider your strategies of behavior.
Instructions
Step 1
List the changes. It is better to leave faith in love spells, amulets and conspiracies to fatalists, who believe that everything in our life is predetermined by fate. This means that it is almost impossible to change it. It will be much more realistic and effective to decide on your own what exactly you want to change or fix. Find an ex-love? Change jobs? Have another child? Only you yourself can know exactly what twists of fate you need.
Step 2
Take full responsibility for the change. While you are waiting for someone to settle your problems for you (overcome your shyness, raise, make a decision), nothing good will come of it. You can, of course, go to your friends for advice on whether to get a divorce. But they will make recommendations based on personal experience and preference. And you will have to live with it. Changing destiny is a risk. It may not work out what is intended. It will be better if you independently determine how you will go towards the goal, and what you will do if you fail to achieve it. In this case, no one will have to blame for the failure. And the failure itself, most likely, will not happen. Because you will go in the direction of changing your own life circumstances, and not in the direction of someone else's dream.
Step 3
Get professional help. Many people lack the determination to change something if there is a lack of information. A psychologist can tell you how to make peace with your ex-wife. A lawyer can handle divorce issues. And yoga specialists can help harmonize relationships with superiors so that you can discuss issues about career growth or getting new projects in a relaxed atmosphere. The main thing is that the help of experts should be auxiliary, not the main one. Their vote should not be decisive, but advisory. Since you will still have to make decisions about changes personally.
Step 4
Get ready for a long journey to new horizons in your life. Revolutionary changes in destiny can have destructive consequences. And not everyone can do it. It is much easier to set a goal for yourself, break down into small steps and carry them out systematically. Often, for cardinal changes in life, serious work is required with your inner world: motivation, will, character. Of course, there are situations when the very circumstances give you a chance to change for the better. You should not reject them, but you hardly need to hope for a miracle. Only the promises of some charlatans who promise to "bewitch in three sessions" or "teach in two training sessions" are magical. In fact, you will have to work hard in order to move to a new, completely different stage of your life.
