Until recently, you played in the sandbox on the playground under the watchful supervision of your mother, and now you have graduated from school and are entering adulthood? The first step must be taken.
The worst thing we can do is think too much about the challenges ahead. Scripting in your head when there is no idea is far from the best option. Then you just have to go to bed and cover yourself with a blanket up to your ears, hoping that it will be less scary there. However, in this way we will not solve the problem. The best way out is to stop thinking and acting. One action will entail the next, and we will find a job without problems entering adulthood.
Believe in yourself
Do you know what is the reason for this fear? For lack of faith that you can handle it. But there is another option. Trust in your capabilities and you will achieve whatever you want. Of course, it is only natural to be afraid of uncertainty. Some are less afraid, others more. If this fear is paralyzing, it is worth seeking the help of a psychotherapist. Cities, of course, increase stress levels, and getting into the life of that city is definitely a leap into deep water.
What is maturity?
If we are afraid of the unknown, first it is worth finding out what is hidden under the word "maturity"? Maturity from the point of view of psychology and biology is part of the cycle of human life, which begins after the period of reaching physical maturity, the end of the period of biological growth of the body and important vital functions. According to developmental psychology, it is impossible to determine unambiguously when a person becomes an adult. Some people think that an adult is an economically independent person. Of course, there is some truth in this, but, of course, this is not the only indicator.
Change your point of view
Think about what you are really afraid of? Go to work? After all, all our life, day after day, we went to school, after which we returned home, did our homework. Now understand that work is no different from school. When you work, you simply perform the assigned tasks and responsibilities for an appropriate monetary reward. If you work and earn, then automatically there is money to stay.
Maturity teaches humility
In almost any case, theoretical knowledge is one thing, but reality is completely different. You can tell a lot about adult life, but you will only feel it when you enter it yourself. Despite your fears, you shouldn't hesitate. Don't hide under the covers anymore. It may be warm and safe there, but life has prepared enough pleasant surprises for you that you can take advantage of by simply taking action. Each day you will make choices that will bring you consequences, but this will teach you humility. Maturity is a school that teaches life. It depends on you how quickly you learn and master everything you need.
