Gender roles have changed so much that today it is not shameful for women not only to work, drive a car and engage in "male" professions, but also to get acquainted with representatives of the opposite sex. However, only the wisest women know to exercise their first step very carefully.
Instructions
Step 1
Rate the pose and gestures of the man you like. If a person is inclined to chat with a stranger, he keeps his palms open, crosses his legs, pointing his knees in her direction. A man who is ready for communication does not hide his eyes and is ready to smile. It's great if you see a man straighten his hair or tug at his clothes when he sees your gaze. In sign language, this means an erotic interest in you.
Step 2
Make eye contact. Hold your gaze on the man you are interested in and avert your eyes as soon as he looks at you. After a while, repeat the famous formula "to the corner, to the nose, to the object." Just do not run your eyes, do not fuss and do not look furtively. You just look at the person you like, smiling embarrassedly at the moment when he catches your eye with his.
Step 3
When you are near your object of interest, drop a small note. There can be three topics: the environment, him and you. The first option is the most preferable, because it is not as annoying as the second, and not boring, like the third. Ask which cocktail in this bar's card is worth choosing, who is playing in the upcoming performance, how to cook asparagus - in short, ask any question that is relevant to the circumstances of your meeting and suggests a complex answer.
Step 4
Don't start a conversation with a negative statement like, "This party is so noisy!" Exclamations about the weather may be an exception. Avoid the obvious clichés like "I think we met before" or "What time is it?" - especially in situations where the uselessness of the answer is obvious.
Step 5
Use the context of the situation. At lunch or in the reading room, making contact is easy: ask the person you like to sit down at the table. Even if you are refused, most likely, there will be strong arguments for this (being busy, waiting for another companion). On a run, say in a friendly way, "Let's go for a race?" (in the end, after an unsuccessful attempt to get to know each other, you can quickly run away). At the gym, store, or library, ask for advice.
Step 6
If you are a shy girl, try to go straight for contact. For example, to compliment a man: "Lilac suits you" or "You have beautiful eyebrows." Maybe a date won't follow this conversation, but reciprocal attention is guaranteed.
