There is only one step from trust to betrayal, as well as from love to hate. However, few people could live their entire lives without ever opening themselves to another person. Of course, trust must be earned, but each person determines the meaning of this phrase for himself.
Instructions
Step 1
Why did you decide to button up your soul with all the buttons? You may be confusing the concepts of trust and gullibility. The first of them makes it possible to build sincere relationships with well-known people, and the second means blind faith in a word. If you at least intuitively feel the difference, you will understand that once you open yourself to a truly close person, you are unlikely to call yourself a gullible simpleton.
Step 2
But what if someone tried to take advantage of your trust? As a rule, it is after such a sad experience that people begin to withdraw into themselves and stop opening up even to close people. It turns out that if you do not trust, then hardly anyone will open their soul to you, and this path is fraught with loneliness and misunderstanding on the part of others. Analyze what you could be wrong and how to avoid it in the future. In any case, do not withdraw into yourself, but rather start learning from your mistakes.
Step 3
If there is a traitor in your environment, do not rush in response to spread all the ins and outs that you know. Think about why the person decided to do this? Try to put yourself in his place, perhaps it was your behavior that provoked him to this dastardly step. Break off or continue friendship with him is up to you. Be that as it may, try to forgive the traitor. This will help you not to become obsessed with mistrust again and not to lose other friends.
Step 4
Inner openness helps a person to overcome life's hardships and be surrounded by those who can sincerely share happy moments with you. Don't neglect trust just because someone has wronged you. You cannot equate the rest with one betrayed person. Better pay attention to those people who trust you. This means that they respect, value you, and are almost certain that you will not betray them. Perhaps you should try to open up to one of them.
