We all want to be able to talk to anyone and about anything. Often we find ourselves in a situation where we see a person who attracts us - either by their appearance or by their behavior, but we do not dare to speak to him because we do not have enough determination and we doubt our own strengths. Or, for example, we need to make the necessary acquaintance, but we do not know where to start - what to do in such cases? The problem lies within ourselves, and in order to solve it, we need to develop some properties in ourselves, including self-confidence.
Instructions
Step 1
Build self-confidence. Find the area of action that you do best, what you enjoy doing the most - and do it as often as possible. Find like-minded people - this will simplify the process. Immerse yourself in the significance of yourself and your actions in this area, and this feeling will spread to everything you do.
Step 2
Work on your voice. If you don't have someone to talk to for hours, read aloud. Find a time during which you can read aloud as loudly as possible without being disturbed by anyone.
Step 3
Develop a confident demeanor. A straight back and neck, a clear step, a straight gaze are the attributes of a self-confident person. If you are uncomfortable and this manner is not familiar to you and does not correspond to your sense of yourself, specifically hold it, and you will see how your state will change.
Step 4
Develop a confident demeanor. A straight back and neck, a clear step, a straight gaze are the attributes of a self-confident person. If you feel uncomfortable and this manner is not familiar to you and does not correspond to your sense of yourself, specifically hold it, and you will see how your state will change.
Step 5
In a conversation, listen to the interlocutor, and listen carefully. Remember that you are not the enemy, and any dispute is just a waste of time. Do not interrupt the interlocutor and always let him finish, often in order to support the conversation, it is enough to ask the right questions on the topics that the interlocutor wants to talk about.
