Self-confidence, self-attractiveness is the key to success in many endeavors and endeavors. A confident person succeeds in everything, and if something does not work out, then he does not despair and looks for how to solve the problem. Not all people have innate confidence. Someone from early childhood goes forward and achieves their goal, while someone is afraid to take an extra step because of indecision. But you can develop confidence in yourself, the main thing is to really want it.
Instructions
Step 1
Determine in which areas of your life you feel insecure. Perhaps in your career you have reached certain professional heights, but in your personal life you have problems, as you are afraid to meet the opposite sex, because you think that you are outwardly unattractive or think that you will not be able to maintain a conversation. In this case, you can sign up for pickup courses, where you will be taught the art of seduction, will prove to you that you are capable and deserve the best. Or take a public speaking course to be able to express your thoughts beautifully and easily.
Step 2
And perhaps, on the contrary, everything is fine in your personal life, but your career does not work out, or you cannot find a job at all. And all because you are afraid to once again express your point of view, to make some kind of proposal to improve the workflow. It seems to you that you will be laughed at and not taken seriously. You can only fight this type of insecurity by forcing yourself to take the initiative. You should not immediately offer your services on some complex projects and assignments, but you can do something on your own? And gradually develop your achievements, make it harder for yourself
Step 3
There are people who are unsure of everything, no matter what business they undertake, everything falls out of their hands, and nothing works. They cannot find a decent job, and in their personal lives not everything is as harmonious as they would like, or even in all their personal lives they are not at all. Eliminating this type of insecurity will take a long and difficult job.
Step 4
First, stop apologizing for and without it, as constant guilt doesn't help build confidence. Second, hide your fears. You have been assigned a difficult task or have a date with a person you like. It is clear that in either case, you experience nervousness and fear. But there is absolutely no need to demonstrate this outwardly. Learn to manage your emotions. Let others think you are confident even when you yourself do not feel it.
Step 5
If you have to perform some important task, imagine how it should go, how you should behave. If you need to make a speech, then rehearse it in front of a mirror, while watching intonation, timbre of voice, speed of speech.
Step 6
Attend various trainings aimed at developing personal qualities, to gain self-confidence. The result of such courses will be an increase in your self-esteem, you will begin to perceive the world around you and your place in it in a completely different way.
