Life in a family, in a circle of friends, among university friends, in society always implies the presence of a number of people who, with their views on life, morality, morality, or simply order in the apartment, are so strikingly different from us. Sometimes incivility, shamelessness, rudeness and rudeness overflow the banks, and you have to seek justice for those who are not going to admit that besides them there are other people in the world.
Instructions
Step 1
Before you put someone in their place, you need to be filled with self-confidence. It often happens that a person, seeing how rude and unwelcoming his interlocutor is, gets lost and, getting involved in an argument, quickly loses his position. If you decide to prove your case and return everything to its place, be sure of yourself like no other. Even if your agrumentation suffers, or you have never had to deal with such blatant swagger in your life, or you are simply emotionally exhausted, you should be like a rock against which waves of other people's opinion are powerlessly breaking.
Step 2
This principle works in all such situations, even if you are trying to find justice for your own children. However, in this case, act from a position of love and affection. Do not make enemies of children: often, when children behave badly, they are just trying to find justice for you. They have their own goals and interests, just like you. Therefore, even when you have to resort to rather harsh measures, teaching your child a lesson, show him that you love him very much.
Step 3
It's another matter when you are a teacher and the children around you are students. Here it is necessary to find justice from the perspective of a teacher, not a parent. A parent who wants to put in the child's place has a goal of peace in the house and respect for his own person. For a teacher, the main thing is the educational process, hence the demand for respect and the demand for discipline. Children have to learn, you have to teach them; show respect for children and demand the same in return. Show by example that you will not stoop to the scandals that children so often expect to disrupt the lesson.
Step 4
Finding justice for students or subordinates is already more difficult. Here (especially with regard to the boss and subordinates) such networks are often woven, such intrigues that the Madrid court itself would envy. What is there to do? The conflict situation must be stifled at the beginning. It is often better if you make concessions to the peaceful demands of either one worker or a small group of workers, without waiting for their conditions to become harsher, and peaceful protests escalate into a riot on the ship. Students are the same students, only more cockroaches have appeared in their heads. Be aware of the educational and production process. Be respectful and your employees will appreciate it.
Step 5
A completely different situation is when you need to fight back a boor on the street, in the subway, in a traffic jam, on an airplane, in a queue. However, not all means are good here either. Never let the rude person make you angry or angry. You must be calm, ironic, sarcastic. Such people quickly find supporters, and such supporters, from whom there is more sense than hysterical aunts or angry grandfathers with sticks. If the boor meets with a calm rebuff, he himself will have to switch to calmer intonations. And the last thing: do not attach special importance to such unpleasant meetings. The main thing is to be able to withstand them with dignity.
