Of course, a more unbearable person should still be looked for. Capriciousness, a tendency to humiliate others and coldness make these people not the most pleasant to talk to. But they still have problems that are not visible at first glance.
Anyone who has met a “narcissist” in their life can agree that they are, to put it mildly, unpleasant personalities. At first, you may be interested with people who constantly argue that the world is far from ideal. In addition, such people take care of themselves, and their appearance is very attractive. But over time, taking a closer look, you realize that in fact you have a capricious person in front of you, who is unable to bear the thought that he is not the navel of the earth.
According to scientists, the best reaction to such people is kindness and … pity. Although they usually make you want to put it out of place, it is still not worth it, and here's why.
1. "Narcissists" are very vulnerable
As a rule, deep down in their hearts, such people suffer a lot. Chronically low self-esteem is their constant companion, and they try to compensate for this by seeking constant attention. It is this that will help them feel important and significant in this world, since in fact, narcissists do not realize their value as a person.
2. "Narcissists" with their terrible character also live
It would seem that indifference to everything should save the "narcissists" from experiences, but no. In fact, such people experience negative emotions much deeper than other people, especially since “narcissists” realize that all difficulties in communication are associated with them, with their character, narcissism and inability to empathize with people.
3. "Narcissists" can learn empathy
Perhaps the most disgusting character trait of "narcissists" is inattention to the feelings and needs of other people. Relatives often blame them for callousness and coldness, and at times they even think that narcissists simply do not care about them. But in reality, the narcissist can show genuine empathy and even put himself in the shoes of the other person. Only for this it is necessary to completely immerse the "narcissist" in someone else's inner world.
Excessive selfishness is rarely found in a truly happy person. Remember this when dealing with another "narcissist".
