Girls, deeply in love with a guy, begin almost immediately to plan a future wedding with him, then their family life, the birth of children and a carefree old age together. Men perceive everything differently. For them, a relationship is not at all an impetus to think about a joint future, no matter how good it is together. Many women, faced with such a reality, fall into the trap of their own dreams.
Instructions
Step 1
The man is in no hurry to introduce his chosen one to friends. It is clear that at the stage of dating, the couple is only busy enjoying every minute spent together. But, when the relationship is already moving to a closer and more trusting level, a man who is serious about his chosen one will certainly introduce her to his friends.
Step 2
A man does not introduce his girlfriend to her parents. Faced with this, many women tend to panic and sound the alarm, insisting on the indispensable acquaintance with their parents. But this situation is not so critical. It's just that a man can have a difficult relationship with his family. There is no need to put pressure on him, you can try to bring him to the conversation, if he does not agree to this, then the topic is really painful for him and it should be left for a while.
Step 3
It happens that when a couple visits a public place or just walks around the city, but the man does not show signs of attention, completely withdraws and does not even look at his companion. Women immediately think that he is ashamed of her, but that is not the point. If he was ashamed, he would simply not leave the house. Maybe he's just bored with his lady.
Step 4
During each date, the man drinks a lot of alcohol. There are two explanations for this: either he is very insecure, or this is his addiction.
Step 5
He rarely calls and writes. Women tend to justify their partner, saying that he is very busy, that he is driving and there is no way to contact her. There is no need to deceive yourself. It takes very little time to ask how your beloved is feeling, what she is doing, or just to say that you miss her.
Step 6
Constantly wants to change something in the appearance of his girlfriend. This is a wake-up call for a relationship. Because a person who truly loves loves both the soul and the appearance of the chosen one, and not individual details that can not be changed.
Step 7
Asks for money on credit. The nature of a man is such that he should feel like a leader in everything, be able to independently provide not only life for himself, but also fulfill some of the whims of his chosen one, no matter how temporary their relationship may be. Borrowed money can only be asked by a man who does not take a woman seriously or one in whom the habits of a gigolo are strong.
Step 8
If at least a few points coincided, then you should not despair that the relationship did not work out with such a man. In life, there will definitely be one in which there will not be any of the above points.
