Sometimes a person hears from his relatives and friends a mysterious and not entirely clear advice: "Always remain yourself." But has anyone ever wondered what these mysterious words mean?
Instructions
Step 1
Love yourself - first of all, your shortcomings. There are no perfect people. Perhaps your body is imperfect, you have bad habits, but you are you. Learn to appreciate, love and respect yourself. If you do not do it yourself, then what can you say about the people around you. Each person is individual, he is a creation, a unique work of nature.
Step 2
Don't use formal language. Don't try to imitate someone else's way of speaking. Express yourself in everyday life simply - without florid words that are not close to you.
Step 3
Pay attention to your behavior in society. Sometimes life develops in such a way that a person behaves in a particular situation unusual for himself - some places, circumstances and people strain him, he becomes isolated or annoying. Let go of the situation. Relaxation means a return to basics, to inner peace of mind.
Step 4
Do not hurry. Being in motion all the time, a person can forget who he really is. To hurry means not to open up completely. Stop talking to people. When hurrying somewhere, slow down. Rule one: the more you rush, the further you run away from your real self.
Step 5
Speak in public more often. Not only will you unleash your inner potential and accept yourself as you are, in addition to this, you will train other people to accept you as the real one. If you don't have the opportunity to speak in public, then start blogging on the Internet, and the more honest, the better for you. The first recordings will be difficult - it is difficult to bare the soul. No one wants to appear weak and defenseless in the eyes of others. Seeing the first caustic comments under your posts, you will want to quit this occupation, but the difficulties only temper. So you will begin to perceive third-party criticism and open up internally not only and so much for others, but also for yourself.
